The Other Woman: Is she single or not?

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The Other Woman: Is she single or not?

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[september love]

:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

[lovin me]

As long as you keep your foot in the door. You will empower him to continue his disrespectful acts. I know its hard sista, but a cold bed for a season, is better than aids, cold sores, or death. Trust God, and take a step, he will do the rest. Remember, there is a soul mate out here who will value you love you and cherish you. Do it for yourself. You are enabling him let it go!

[SmartMouth79]

:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

I was going to ask if you've talked to him about this. Then I started thinking - doesnt matter. There is no rational explaination for this kind of thing. Its a lack of respect for you and your relationship. This is hard - but I know you can do it. For whatever reason - he is not appreciating the wonderful qualities he already has. You're not alone... you know that. No matter how much you may care/still care for him... no matter what emotions you feel for him -- none of them should outweigh the love you have for yourself. You know this already. When making major life changes we have to mentally prepare oursleves for the difference. Once our minds wrap around the change - we can slowly get behind the process and our emotions are willing to follow. It will take time.. and it will be a major adjustment - esp after 20 years.. but you know when its time. You know you deserve better. Start making plans to make your move. Challenges in life are what our true character and strength are built on. You can do this.

[Legz]

:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

You are missing your blessing(s) by staying in that situation. (I can't bring myself to calling it a relationship.) Get your money right and bail!

[KevLove35]

:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

Taking that first step is always the hardest one to take , but you must " Love yourself " enough to want better .

20 years is a long time -and- maybe you're afraid of the unknown -or- a life without this man .

The writings on the wall ; you've been together for two decades and this dude hasn't Married you yet ???

Come on my sistah ; it's time to Trust GOD , embrace the concept of Self-Love and move forward .
Complacency is robbing you of a progressive future ; remaining in your current situation will drain you .

[Black Ac]

If you stayed with a man for twenty years and he still hasn't married you then you are in love with who you think he is or who you want him to be and not with the man he actually is. He has spent twenty years learning what to say to keep you on a string. If you are happy dangling at the end of that string, accept it but if you want more, you have to expect and demand more. If there is another woman at this point, accept that he doesn't really want you and move on. You won't be losing as much as you think.

:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

[ladymaync]

On one hand I can understand why you would stay

Nowadays, investing 20 years in a relationship is a lifetime!!
Why would you want to try to rebuild all that you have accomplished with this "man"?

On the other hand, 20 years is a long time..All the more reason for you to leave now before you lose the nerve or before you start thinking of reasons you should forgive him and stay

All I can say is trust that GOD will give you direction and the strength to cope with this


:confused: I am not the other woman. My fience is seeing the other woman. I have been with this man for twenty years. I just found out who this other woman is. He is not going to stop seeing her. So I made up my mind to leave him. I cant seems to get my foot out the door. I need help.

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[lynn2006]

Honey all you have to do is to take a step and get involved in other things... if sometimes it takes friends, another man, a trip or just real girlfriends... he will want to come back but don't take the disrespect.